The young director at the ballet school in Vermont’s Upper Valley, where I now hang my hat professionally, is enjoying her long-delayed move into a new building which continues as I write this. On Saturday we will hold our first classes there. This new chapter in the life of her fledgling school has opened with nail biting and hand wringing, joy, chaos, dirt, angst, impatience, jubilation, weariness, exhilaration–everything you’d expect at a time like this. I know she is excited; we all are. For the first time the three of us on the teaching staff will be working under the same roof, and significantly, at the same time, instead of on separate campuses as we have done while we wait. Now we can operate in a creative petri dish of sorts, and that has been an important missing element in the life of this growing ballet school.
I admit I am jealous. A couple of years ago I was in pretty much the exact same place my boss now finds herself, with a couple of notable exceptions. First, I was unaware of the destruction that was about to be unleashed on me, on my family, and ultimately, on my young business at the hands of an errant spouse. And second, I had been painfully aware for some time leading up to then that not only had I lost my emotional support, except for what I had in the guise of my devoted ballet school friends and families, but also I was losing the last shred of financial support that had been critical to keep the school going. A slow local economy was the final nail in the school’s coffin.
I have had plenty of time to consider what happened to me, to us, to our family. Some fleeting piece of it makes sense, but I doubt I will ever understand what would drive a person to become so reckless that in almost an instant he could wipe out so much of importance, assault-weapon style. I feel the lingering effects of that still, every single day. But every single day I also think about what I built up, how good I was able to make it with the support of many, many people, how much hard work was poured into it. And how some were hurt when I had to walk away–damage with lingering effects that I know never occurred to my ex.
Still, the school flourished during its brief tenure and left palpable signs of significant achievement in just six years’ time. I am wistful, I am sad. I am glad to have left my thumbprint in Knoxville, Tennessee. And I am happy for the school being built here in beautiful Vermont.
And then it was all over. I packed up my things and left. But about the same time I was preparing for my move to Vermont, three of my young students who had earlier in the year successfully auditioned for American Ballet Theatre’s Young Dancer Summer Workshop were heading to the Big Apple for their first, big, away-from-home ballet school experience, at the epicenter of the ballet world. I arrived to see them in their final classes and studio performance on my fiftieth birthday. It was bittersweet for me, but I could not imagine being anywhere else on that day.
It has been quite some journey. But it is not how the story ends.
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This is such a beautiful post. It brought out so many emotions for me. Thanks for sharing.
As always, Geri, thank you so much for taking the time to look.~d
I absolutely love your honesty “I must admit I am jealous.” Well heck, of course you are. And yet through the jealousy, or pain, or fear you keep getting back up and going. Go you!
beautiful essay, Deb. We, parents and students in the Upper Valley, are the lucky beneficiaries of these difficult changes in your life. So glad you are here!
Julia: you have no idea how nice it is to hear that. I am glad to be here, too, and have enjoyed meeting my new ballet families. I look forward to what I hope will be a long tenure with all of you.~d
It is so evident in your words and photos, how much you love your work and your students. I have no doubt that you’ll be as successful in your new locale as you were here in Knoxville. And after reading Julia’s kind words, above, it sounds like you’re well-loved there too. I look forward to hearing more!
Thank you, Sue. There will be many more stories to tell, both old and new.~d
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